Pre-Christmas Toy Declutter

Pre-Christmas Toy Declutter

"If you want your children to turn out well spend twice as much time with them and half as much money" - Abigail Van Buren

This time next week the arrival of new toys will be imminent. Gifts from generous and thoughtful relatives and friends, could possibly start before the 25th, and by Christmas day our home will be bursting at the gills.

I adore a clean space, a place for everything and everything in its place. I try to live with only necessary items and as a result we have very little clutter in our home. But toys can be a little tricky. It's not really up to me to pare down the boys toys, that's their job. Yet from experience I know how hard it can be to get them to choose toys to give away (even the ones they don't play with), and unfortunately when not kept in check toy clutter can quickly take over an entire home.

Can you tell I get a bit anxious at this time of year?!

Why a smaller choice of toys is a good thing.

It makes sense to think that having a room filled with toys is good for our little ones. We want to give our children the best and surely a good way to show them our love is through their toy collection. However, it's been proven that limiting the number of toys a child has is far more beneficial to their well being. A  study from the University of Toledo in Ohio suggests “an abundance of toys present reduced quality of toddlers’ play." According to the study, having a large amount of toys actually makes a play space over-stimulating for children and lessens their enjoyment of play. I often find my boys won't fully appreciate a toy in front of them when there are countless more to choose from. Whittling down toys to the ones they love playing with gives them increased pleasure from the toys they actually own, and as a result longer stints of playtime. I really don't want to sound like the Grinch here but having fewer toys really is better!

Over the years, out of necessity, I've found some good ways of keeping toys at bay. And the best place to start is to simplify. I do the first part on my own. I definitely know the toys that they never ever play with, toys that may be broken or that they've outgrown. All of these go in the bag. After that, we go through their toys together.

My kids tend not to like the words "toys" and "give away" in the same sentence so to get around that I ask them which toys they would like to keep. From the pile of toys we're left with, I ask which toys they want to donate and which they want to set aside. The toys that are set aside are put in a bag, if they haven't asked for them over a certain agreed period of time then it's time for them to vacate the building.

On a rare occasion when they want to donate something that holds sentimental value for me (like a toy that was a favourite of their older brothers) I'll pop it in a memory box instead. 

Some more reasons to reduce:

  • They learn to be more creative. Too many purpose built toys can prevent a child fully developing their imagination.
  • They can more easily tidy toys away.
  • They learn to appreciate and look after their belongings. Children with less toys value the ones they have and take better care of them.
  • They can develop a greater love for reading, writing and art.
  • They are more inclined to play outside which results in happier healthier bodies.
  • They learn to problem solve and become more resourceful by making decisions and problem solving with materials at hand.

Some things I've learned over the years.

  • Don't put lids on toy containers and toy buckets. When children can see their toys it encourages them to play.
  • Quality is better than quantity. Wooden toys are a good example, they might be a bit more expensive but they're definitely worth the investment.
  • At this time of year encourage grandparents and family members to give them gifts they really need or give them the gift of time (which certainly won't fill up your home!). Time spent with a grandparent or extended family member will be a wonderful memory that they will always cherish. How many of us can remember specific gifts we got from our relations, but a trip to the pantomime or zoo will be a memory that lasts forever.

And finally, before December 25th remind everyone of the four gift rules! 

Something they want

Something they need

Something they wear

Something they read

Wishing you all a happy, healthy and clutter free Christmas!

 

Jen x